It doesn't mean you just look alike.
All the time people say "Are they identical, or can you tell them apart?"
And we respond with "Well, they are identical - but we can tell them apart. They don't look exactly the same."
And people look really confused.
Sometimes people say "Are they identical?"
And we say, "Yep!"
And then they ask "A boy and a girl?"
And then I am really confused.
Because what do all these people think identical means?
So if you're wondering, identical twins are when a lady (in this case, me) gets pregnant. There is one sperm and one egg. As the egg begins to split and grow (like a cell) it splits one time too many and instead of growing into one baby, it grows into two babies.
The babies have the same DNA (usually) and look very alike.
So alike, that often people cannot tell them apart.
But their mom can. Because what kind of mom would I be if I couldn't?
Plus, Grey has like 50 times more hair than Micah -despite having the same DNA.
Fraternal twins come about in an entirely different fashion.
A lady (in this case, not me) gets pregnant with two different eggs and two different sperm. The babies have different DNA and are no more alike than any two siblings who are not twins.
They may look alike and even be difficult to tell apart - but only because they share family resemblance and are the same age and size.
Even if no one but their mom can tell them apart, twins from different eggs are not identical.
And even if twins don't look exactly the same, if they are from the same egg and sperm they are identical.
Because that is the definition of identical. Not sameness of appearance.
So yes. Our boys are identical.
But we can tell them apart.
And you probably could too with practice.
Also, as I said before, Grey has way more hair - so it's not hard to see who is who.
Hairy baby = Grey. Bald baby = Micah.
Although, I will admit, they're starting to look an awwwful lot alike.
So alike, in fact, that yesterday I labeled three pictures as Micah, and realized a bit later that they were in fact Grey.
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